Tuesday, October 16, 2018

Rising Out of Hatred: a book review

Rising Out of Hatred: The Awakening of a Former White Nationalist

Eli Saslow

Published September 18, 2018

Published by Doubleday

I had this advanced reader copy for 2 months before I finally felt ready to read it. I was worried what I would find. Then the book was published and I picked up a copy from my local library thinking it would be easier to read in physical copy than on the computer screen. With that, however, I was afraid to have the book where anyone might see it. I didn’t want people to glimpse only the words “white nationalist” on the cover and jump to conclusions.

All that to say, I have read a number of books about race written by people of color. They aren’t always easy to read, but I dive in eager to learn from their words and experiences. Rising Out of Hatred is the flip side of the equation. It begins with the perpetrator side of the story. Somehow it seems so much easier to read the victim side. When you read the victim side, you can sympathize, you can be shocked. What do you do when you read the perpetrator side? How do you feel?

This is what kept me from picking up the book for so long, even though I wanted to learn from this story.

If I hadn’t already been anxious, the table of contents gave another clue of the tension to come, with chapters titled, “This is Scary,” “So Much Worse than I Ever Thought,” and “All-Out Mayhem.” Still, I am trying to educate myself on racial and social justice, which means I need to understand many stories. Finally, after a deep centering breath, I started reading.

Eli Saslow is a Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist. In this book, he writes about the transformation of Derek Black, heir of the white nationalist movement who ultimately became an advocate for racial and social justice.

Derek was homeschooled and during that time he already began to insert himself on the white nationalist movement. He created a kids version of the Stormfront website -- a website for white nationalists -- and later joined his father on a daily radio show of the same kind. He continued to call in to the radio show daily while attending the liberal New College in Florida. It is there that he befriended a Mexican immigrant, a convert to Kaballah Judaism, and then fell for a Jewish woman. Through the relationships formed there, he slowly begins to unravel his beliefs. Ultimately, he publicly renounces white nationalism, which has familial repercussions.

Saslow approaches this material with a thorough journalistic eye. He relays the events that happened based on interviews he conducted with many of the people mentioned in the book, as well as studying correspondence that was shared with him.

The book is engaging, and I found myself flying through much quicker than I expected to. The complete 180-degree flip in beliefs is fascinating to follow. Many of the students at New College wanted to ostracize Derek when they learned of his affiliation. A few students had already built friendships with him and decided that what they had seen from him didn’t seem to match his white nationalist propaganda. If those were truly his beliefs, why would he join them for Shabbat dinner on Friday nights? Why would he continue to speak with them? The result of continuing to pursue the friendships was that Derek began to question what he had always believed. He began to research other ideas, explore other countries, and through debate with a young woman named Allison transformed his own belief system.

I highly recommend this book. Don’t be afraid to read it like I was.

Disclaimer: I received an advance-read copy of this book via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. I used Amazon affiliate links in this post. Should you choose to buy something through those links, you will not pay any extra, but they will send me a small fee, which I will likely add to my book fund. Thank you. Please see my Book Review Disclaimer for more information.

Wednesday, October 3, 2018

Be Your Higher Self: a book review

Be Your Higher Self

by Samesh Ramjattan

Published August 22, 2018

Published by Matador

Be Your Higher Self is a short self-help book with a New Age feel. The cover is beautiful; the contents are okay. Ramjattan covers a lot of ground in brief chapters.

The book begins with a call to recognize yourself as a spiritual human being made of the same cosmic dust as everything and everyone else. From there the discussions flow to ego, masculine/feminine energy balance, age of aquarius, karma through reincarnation, chakras, and advice for healing, including breathing exercises, mantras, meditation, and diet, to name a few. It even offers examples via a few pop culture references to The Matrix, Groundhog Day, and Field of Dreams.

Be Your Higher Self didn’t quite hit the mark for me. It is a physically gorgeous book with interesting information, but not much that truly resonated with me.

Disclaimer: I received an advance-read copy of this book via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. I used Amazon affiliate links in this post. Should you choose to buy something through those links, you will not pay any extra, but they will send me a small fee, which I will likely add to my book fund. Thank you. Please see my Book Review Disclaimer for more information.

All the Colors We Will See: a book review

All the Colors We Will See: Reflections on Barriers, Brokenness, and Finding Our Way

by Patrice Gopo

Published August 7, 2018

Published by Thomas Nelson

In All the Colors We Will See, Patrice Gopo explores her experience of race throughout various points in her life. These experiences have been shaped by a number of factors and in a number of locales.

Gopo was born in Jamaica, grew up in Alaska, lived in Cape Town where she met her husband, then in Charlotte, North Carolina where she raises her family. She has two grandparents from India. She was among 5% of black students in attendance at Carnegie Mellon University during her time there. She has been told her hair looks more professional when relaxed and straightened (meaning not worn naturally).

I imagine many people of color can relate to these stories and many white people need to hear them.

Gopo’s writing is beautiful and matter-of-fact. It comes across with ease, which almost certainly means she has taken the time to hone her craft because writing is not easy.

Her chapter about hair -- it’s different types and textures -- is a mindful exploration of society’s expectations for how hair should look, what is beautiful, what is unkempt and what is professional. This made me wonder if hair has so much expectation tied to it, what does that mean for the rest of our existence?

Perhaps the most prevalent theme in the book is about belonging. Gopo looks at the ways she may be seen as an outsider or something "other." She is the only black student in her class at school in Alaska, which leads her to be singled out for questions about race. She doesn’t feel she fits in with her family members in Jamaica because of her accent and inability to understand some of the local dialect. She recognizes that she is an anomaly in her university graduation class as a black woman in engineering. She questions, years after the fact, what it meant when a friend said, “I don’t see you as black.” She describes with rawness what she felt when she first encountered a confederate flag.

I highly recommend this book. I think people of color will be able to relate and see themselves in Gopo’s stories, and I think white people need to hear more stories from people of color. We have a responsibility to learn how word choices contribute to racism, how simple exchanges can have greater impact than we realize. And I think all of us, of all colors, need to move to a state of belonging and understanding. All the Colors We Will See is an easy entry point to this conversation.

Disclaimer: I received an advance-read copy of this book via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

Tuesday, October 2, 2018

Octopus on a Treadmill: a book review

Octopus on a Treadmill: Women. Success. Health. Happiness

by Gifty Enright

Published March 6, 2018

Book Refinery Limited

Octopus on a Treadmill: Women. Success. Health. Happiness begins with Gifty Enright’s experience of finding herself with 14 symptoms and a recommendation for hormone replacement therapy, then grows into a full exploration of the factors that can affect our health and energy.

Following various models of basic needs, Enright speaks to nutrition, hydration, sleep, exercise, clearing clutter, choosing better thoughts, boundaries, and meditation. Many of her tips are common pieces of advice, like drinking lots of water, filling half your plate with vegetables, and getting 8-9 hours of sleep. What makes this book handy, is having all of that information -- physical, mental, environmental, and spiritual -- in one place. She also explains a little of the science and reasoning behind them.

Enright has approached these topics in a very readable, conversational tone that makes the concepts easy to understand and implement. She has used her own research, as well as her experiences as a woman born in Ghana and living in the U.K. to enrich her book.

I recommend this book for working mothers. It is geared specifically toward women as it includes discussions of menstrual cycles and women’s experiences in the workplace and motherhood. If working mother doesn’t describe you, you may get something out of this book, but not as much as those who identify as working mothers.

And if you need to understand why you should follow various health advice, this book will answer all the whys.

Disclaimer: I received this ebook for free from Enright’s marketing team in exchange for an honest review.

Monday, October 1, 2018

Raise Your Voice: a book review

Raise Your Voice: Why We Stay Silent and How to Speak Up

by Kathy Khang

Published July 31, 2018

IVP Books

I heard about this book on Jen Hatmaker’s For the Love podcast (I think I say that a lot) and loved hearing Kathy Khang speak about it so much that I requested it on NetGalley.

In Raise Your Voice: Why We Stay Silent and How to Speak Up, Khang explores the reasons we stay silent, which can include fear, not wanting to cause conflict, that the offense doesn’t apply to us specifically, or because of the “Let go and let God” mentality.

It’s about finding your voice and the courage to speak up in any scenario, but also specifically addresses racism as well as Christianity. She begins with her own difficulty of having a voice as a woman and particularly as a woman of color (she is Korean American and came to the U.S. as a child).

She includes a chapter about addressing live audiences and another about addressing digital audiences.

This book is about all the ways we keep ourselves from speaking up and all the ways we can speak up.

I appreciated Khang’s thorough look at this topic and her vulnerability in sharing her own struggles in raising her voice. This is a good book for anyone who wants to get better about speaking up.

Disclaimer: I received an advance-read copy of this book via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. I used Amazon affiliate links in this post. Should you choose to buy something through those links, you will not pay any extra, but they will send me a small fee, which I will likely add to my book fund. Thank you. Please see my Book Review Disclaimer for more information.

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